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Breastfeeding can be one of the most rewarding and challenging parts of motherhood. Between advice from loved ones, strangers in the supermarket, Facebook groups and the depths of Google, it’s no wonder so many myths about breastfeeding persist. But here’s the truth, your breastfeeding journey is yours alone, and it’s okay to need clarity along the way. Let’s break down some common misconceptions and replace them with facts and reassurance.
Does Breastfeeding Always Hurt? Spoiler: It Shouldn’t.
While it’s normal to feel some tenderness in the early days, persistent pain is not something you should just “push through.” Discomfort often signals issues like a poor latch or positioning. The good news? These can be corrected with the right support. If pain is part of your daily routine, it’s time to reach out to a lactation consultant who can help get things back on track. Breastfeeding is meant to bring you and your baby closer, not cause physical stress.
Ever wondered why people tell you that skin to skin with your baby is so important?
Well, let me tell you a little bit about the magic of a baby being born.
Following the birth of your baby your brain receives messaging that a baby has arrived (interestingly thanks to the birth of your placenta, not baby) and a wonderful hormone called prolatin begins to upregulate. As you would expect from its name, prolactin is responsible for the initiation of lactation or production of your milk supply.
Another hormone which is critical for breastfeeding is oxytocin. 'The Love Hormone'. Oxytocin is responsible for the milk ejection or removal of the milk from your breast into your bubba's mouth.
Whilst your bubba may have penciled in a shopping list of appointments with the maternal child health nurse, GP and/or paediatrician, mama’s are often only afforded a single ‘6-week’ follow up appointment and sent on their merry way. So let’s talk about the type of care and observations you should be looking for from your Village of Health Professionals.
Very rarely do we recommend products for our FYC Mamas, we believe every mama and babies journey is unique and therefore the MUST HAVES are just not going to fit for everyone.
BUT, there is one product that we suggest for our Mamas, something tried, tested and tested again. A product which has lifelong functionality, not something you will be selling off on Facebook Marketplace in 3 months time.
Behold, the Mama Trolley.
Did you know that 95% of women stepping into motherhood say they would like to breastfeed, however only 39% are exclusively breastfeeding at 16 weeks.
In our podcast interview with Dr Pamela Douglas, Founder and Medical Director of POSSUMS Neuroprotective Developmental Care, I asked her why we see such a significant decrease in rates of mother’s breastfeeding journeys. Her response:
‘The health system is letting women down..they don’t have the clinical skills to be able to deal with the distressing problems women encounter while breastfeeding’
Much of the problems Dr Douglas describes comes from nipple pain, which in her opinion is highly over medicalised at the moment. Typically stemming from continual breast tissue drag from incorrect fit and hold of the mother:baby dyad.
